Refreshing Your Spirit

When the Soul Grows Quiet enough to hear God Breathe

12/27/20252 min read

Empower women.

When the Soul Grows Quiet Enough to Hear God Breathe

She didn’t start the fast because she was strong.

She started because she was tired.

Tired of carrying prayers she’d whispered for years with no visible answers.

Tired of being everyone’s steady place while her own heart felt like shifting sand.

Tired of noise—social, emotional, spiritual—that never let her hear her own thoughts, much less God’s voice.

So she stopped eating.

Not as punishment.

Not as performance.

But as surrender.

The first day was loud. Hunger barked like a restless dog. Her body protested. Her mind replayed worries on a loop. She reached for food out of habit more than need—and every time she paused, she prayed instead.

“God, I’m here. Even if I don’t know what to say.”

By the second day, something softened. The fog thinned. Her prayers were no longer polished speeches but honest sentences—short, cracked, real. She cried without explaining herself. She sat in silence without filling it.

And in that stillness, she realized something uncomfortable but freeing: She had been feeding everything except her spirit. By the third day, her hunger changed. It wasn’t for bread. It was for clarity. For peace that didn’t depend on circumstances. For strength that didn’t come from pretending she was okay.

Prayer stopped feeling like a checklist and started feeling like a conversation. Sometimes God answered with Scripture. Sometimes with peace. Sometimes with nothing but presence—and that was enough. She didn’t come out of the fast with all her problems solved.

Let’s tell the truth—fasting isn’t a magic trick.

But she came out lighter. Clearer. Rooted.

She learned that fasting doesn’t starve you—it teaches you what actually sustains you.

She learned that prayer isn’t about getting God to move—it’s about letting God move you.

She learned that rest for the soul often begins when the body learns restraint.

When she finally ate again, she did it slowly, gratefully, aware. Not rushing back into old habits. Not rushing past the lessons.

Her circumstances hadn’t changed much.

But she had.

Her spirit was refreshed—not because life got easier, but because her focus shifted.

She remembered who her source was.

She remembered she didn’t have to be strong all the time.

She remembered that obedience sometimes looks quiet, unseen, and deeply personal.

And that’s the beauty of prayer and fasting—it doesn’t make you louder.

It makes you aligned.

If you’re feeling drained, scattered, or spiritually dry, maybe it’s not more effort you need.

Maybe it’s less noise.

Less filling.

More listening.

Sometimes the bravest thing a woman can do is pause…

and let God restore her from the inside out.

Rise strong.